When siblings fight, parents should avoid judging or forcing the older child to yield to the younger sibling. Unfairly protecting the younger child may lead to resentment and mistreatment of the older towards the younger.
手足間的吵架,父母不應出面仲裁,也不應強迫「大的」必須忍讓弟弟妹妹的行為,如果父母經常袒護「小的」,哥哥姊姊反而背地裡會對弟妹使壞。