大部分人都不敢愛、不敢恨，為什麼??
Rello May 在 'The Courage to Create' 提到幾種Courage
我覺得好有道理，把他翻譯出來，分享給對勇氣好奇的人參考
1) Physical courage that does not deal with muscles or violence, but with the body as a way of cultivating empathy and sympathy.
身體的勇氣並不是指有肌肉或是用暴力，而是用身體做為培養移情作用與同情心的地方。
2) Moral courage that takes a stand against violence of any type: physical, moral, spiritual, and psychological. The most frequently experienced form of cowardice is the statement, "I did not want to become involved."
道德的勇氣是針對身體，心靈和心理的任何一種暴力採取反對的立場。膽怯，最常見的的標準說法是；「我不想被牽連進去！」
3) Social courage which includes risking oneself to achieve meaningful intimacy, to invest one's time, emotions, energy over time in order to develop relationships. It is the courage to withstand the fear of autonomy, abandonment and self-actualization. It is also the courage to stand up to the fear of being totally absorbed by the other.
社會的勇氣包含為了讓自己可以達成有意義的親密感而去冒的風險，將自己的時間、情感、能量不斷的投入以發展關係。那勇氣是一種對抗自主權、任性和自我實現的恐懼。那勇氣也是一種讓自己處於被完全耗盡的恐懼。
4) Creative courage, which includes both the discovery and the appreciation of new forms, ideas, patterns and symbols. It is the courage to defy death, not by denying physical death, but by reaching beyond it through the products of our creative acts. Creativity comes from the struggle and courage to confront death and to rebel against it. Courage means seeing death as an injustice and fighting it and all injustice.
創造的勇氣，包含新的型態、概念、圖案和符號的發現和欣賞。那是一種挑戰死亡的勇氣，不是挑戰身體的死亡，而是藉由我們的行動所產出的事物來超越它。創意是來自於面臨死亡、對抗死亡的掙扎和勇氣。這勇氣代表的是試著去抵抗死亡跟死亡的不公平。
我的感想:
要有美麗的身材，需要有抗拒美食當前的勇氣
韓語班的同學，大辣辣的做弊，我沒有道德勇氣去把這件事情說出來~那是怯懦!
但是管誰愛誰，誰又跟誰分手，那是無聊!
愛一個人，交一個朋友，表示你的生活有部分必須跟他分享，那需要承諾的勇氣。
創作跟創造一個生命一樣，都是從無到有，都是煎熬與痛苦。創作和誕生、死亡關係密切。
