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山寨娘娘

Telling Fibs: 小兒撒小謊

2005年11月29日


摘譯自:www.babycenter.com

對三到五歲的小孩而言,現實和幻想的分界還不是很清楚
你的孩子可能因為他但願自己不曾在牆上塗鴉
而宣稱自已沒有亂畫牆壁
這並不是他故意要說謊

心平氣和地鼓勵他告訴你發生什麼事了
不要因為自己的憤怒或沮喪而造成小孩文過事非的說謊
同時告訴他"說謊"比他做錯的任何事都要來的糟糕
由此你將幫助小孩根絕想要撒謊掩飾過錯的念頭

For preschoolers, the line between reality and fantasy is still blurry. Your child might say that he didn't scribble on the wall because he wishes he hadn't — not because he's deliberately lying. Encourage him to tell you what happened without seeming angry or frustrated, and explain that lying is worse than anything he might have done. Make it less scary for him to tell the truth, and you'll help nip his fibbing in the bud.