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網誌區塊
2011年11月24日
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the first party invitation

2011年11月24日
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建容家煲湯day

大卤面 炒芥菜

2011年11月24日
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51

Best ways to avoid spoiling your kids.

Best ways to avoid spoiling your kids by Melanie Haiken En español printprint Love knows no limits, right? Wrong! If you want to raise well-mannered children, you'll need to establish some ground rules. Nip bad behaviors in the bud with these seven steps: 1. Set clear, simple limits Think of it this way: If you leave no room for reinterpretation, you save yourself arguing later. Listen to the difference between "Oh okay, you can have a cookie..." (plenty of room for hope that a second one might be okay) and "You can have one cookie, but don't ask me for a second one. This is it." 2. Stick to those limits no matter what One really means one. It's happened to all of us: We say no to more than one cookie, and then we start second-guessing ourselves. The trick here is to take a long-term view. Maybe a second cookie really would be okay just this once, but do you really want to be second-guessed every time you set a limit? That will happen if you change your story. 3. Never give in to begging This one's simple — once you do, you've taught your child that begging works, right? 4. Make your child convince you If she wants something you're not sure about, ask her to make a case for it. She wants to watch a favorite TV show? If she explains that all her homework is done and she's practiced piano, you can feel comfortable saying yes. 5. Require that chores get done before fun You don't do your child any favors by being a softy. Studies show that being strict on chores and responsibilities helps him develop the ability to cope with frustration. 6. Don't be afraid to disappoint We hate to see our kids sad, but the Stones said it best: You can't always get what you want. And studies show that learning to accept disappointment will give your child important coping skills to deal with emotional stress later in life. 7. Let them work for what they want Many experts believe that kids become spoiled when things come too easily, encouraging them to take those things for granted. If your child wants a new bike, set up a reward system for good behavior and let him earn it bit by bit.

2011年11月22日
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42

姑婆纪念日

姑婆纪念日

2011年11月19日
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42

yamaha music class

yamaha music class

2011年11月19日
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57

new born baby

Congrats to Yu and Peng~~~~

2011年11月18日
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37

school assembly

school assembly

2011年11月12日
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12

dinner at 張姊家

2011年11月12日
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17

sunny day to the park

sunny day to the park

2011年11月09日
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15

下冰雹

2011年11月05日
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38

yamaha music class

yamaha music class

2011年11月02日
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39

放學後的birthday party