Younger sister:
How you treat your children, the children will repay to you in the future. That's the way I treat my relatives and wife. It's very difficult to know what will happen or what will they repay in the near future. Do the best as much as you can.
An elder must have large tolerance for childern. When a child make a mistake, an elder should tell him not roar with anger. It's also not acceptable by child. To think when you were a child, your parents always roar with you. Will you accept it? I never see somebody like you having so much argument with other childen. You are absolutely an elder for some children. Sometimes You act like child but actually you think you are an elder.
Think about the way you treat your elders. Your grandmother, father, mother, uncle,.... Do you really respect your elder in your mind or just call them their titles as you meet them? Do you really be concerned with their lifes? Follow that they told to you?
You are going to be a mother in several days. That mean you will have thousands of things to learn after that.
Best Regards
YEH SHIH PIN
