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寶寶爬爬搬搬趣味競賽!孩子人生中的第一場賽事!熱烈報名中~

Melody

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2010年11月22日
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Being Bossy

Christine told me about Joanne's complains about Serena being bossy to her in school. I am a little surprised to hear that because Serena frequently complained about other kids being bossy in school and thus she didn't like to play with certain kids. Now, herself is falling in that trap also. All her 1st grade classmates ended up like to play with Catherine, and sometimes play against her. Last night, I had a talk with Catherine about not to play against her sister at school and asked Serena to be more cooperate and tolerant with other kids. Hope they will listen and improve once they go back to school after holidays. Serena is too spoiled by us, so she sometimes insist on things that are not reasonable.For example, she applies " taking turn" rule on wining. She thinks that she has to win just like everybody else when she runs slower than everybody else and always got tagged. When I tried to explain to her wining depends on ability, she just think that is not fair. She was crying when she recalled how her sister and first grade friends stuck their tongue out at her last week during recess. I feel sorry for her having to go through this at school, but at the same time feel that she has to change her attitude and work on her social skills. Worries on kids never end. Last week while in AR Store, I saw Julian Montelongo's mom left early to help her daughter because her daughter was bullied by another girl in Horner Jr. High. Catherine seems more mature than last year while Serena seems to have a little trouble making friends in school.