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寶寶爬爬搬搬趣味競賽!孩子人生中的第一場賽事!熱烈報名中~

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我們都在朝著愛與理解中前進,幸福是必然的!

我們都在朝著愛與理解中前進,幸福是必然的!

Your 3-Year-Old: Yech...Peas

2013年04月09日
Yech ... Peas

Parenting a preschooler demands patience — perhaps nowhere more than at the dining table. Your child may skip meals, pick at her veggies, or eat only white-colored foods for weeks on end. These erratic eating habits are perfectly normal, especially at this age.
沒錯!小馨會挑小青菜!她不是不吃青菜,而是會挑芹菜、蔥花等小小的菜類,通常是在湯裡面,我需要有耐心地幫她挑掉,這時就不免怨嘆:小馨的這個壞習慣是來自老公的遺傳,但為什麼是由我來承受?這種挑菜的動作是很煩的!應該讓她的爸爸自己得到「報應」才對吧!

Your 3-year-old now
Preschoolers are seldom gourmands — they're too busy to be too interested in food, Some kids, though, are more adventuresome eaters than others. If you have one who tends to be finicky, you need to walk the fine line between haranguing and giving up. If you force foods on your child or try to make her clean her plate, she's apt to dig in her heels. You don't want to surround mealtimes and food with too much emotion. Don't let fussiness stop you from presenting healthy choices, though.

Many preschoolers go through a stage of fearing new foods. They'd rather skip the park for a week than let a single broccoli floret pass their lips. But this is also the age when children develop the food habits they'll have for a lifetime, so it's best to keep trying. Nutritionists have found that a new food may need to be presented as many as 20 times before a child will agree to try it. What's happening those other 19 times is that the child is growing more familiar with it. Even if she acts indifferent, she's smelling it, eyeing it, seeing how it feels in her hand or on a fork. She's also watching you eat it, which is another way of familiarizing herself. Obviously it's impossibly frustrating to prepare a special, nutritious dish for your child only to have it rejected again and again. This is another reason it's a good idea to offer your child small portions of whatever you've made for yourself (and another reason to cook nutritious food for yourself!).

Bottom line is, you're in charge of what food comes into the house and what gets put on the table. Your child is in charge of what goes in her mouth.

Your life now
As you watch your child branch out into a wider sphere of playmates, it's not uncommon to be a tiny bit anxious: Will she be well liked? Make friends easily? It's reassuring to know that some children mature socially later than others and may not have a strong interest in interacting with other kids until after they turn 4 or 5. Some kids are more naturally reserved. Neither situation, though, means you'll have a wallflower for life. With time, encouragement, and opportunity, your child's social world will expand. You may need to act as the social director for a while, arranging playdates or inviting a preschool mate for a snack.