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找了小姑姑一家人來欣賞煙火,小馨很棒喔!沒被「怦怦」的煙火聲給嚇到!
昨晚幫小馨洗澡,脫完衣服後只見她嘴裡在哼哼唱唱不知道什麼曲子,兩隻手也都擺出動作,應該像是在跳舞, 因此我問她:「妳在跳舞嗎?可以跳給我看嗎?」 她更賣力地跳了起來...我看了之後果然笑了很久∼∼ 晚上睡前聊天,我假裝也要加入他們一起跳, 她跟我說:「妳要等到老師叫妳的名字才可以出來,好不好?」 此外還說「把拔馬麻會在台下看」..... 一副慎重其事地告訴我應該注意的事項,真得很好笑哩! 最後我又問她:「把拔馬麻在台下看,妳會不會緊張啊?」 她很直接地回答:「不會啊!」 (咳咳!最好不會啦!到時候可要正常演出啊)
包括掛號費,共花了NT3350,真的好燒錢啊! 不過也順便讓醫生清了耳屎,收穫頗多! 對了!在診所裡等待時,小馨竟然對我說「馬麻,你對把拔好一點,好不好?」後來趕緊質問把拔,是不是剛剛在車上對她說了什麼? 老公立刻澄清表明他沒有教她,也不能理解小馨為何會說出這樣的話來,真是奇怪.....?
整天下雨,到了淡水雨竟然更大了。 不過泡湯的湯屋很大,比想像中好很多,小馨也長大許多,不用像上次在烏來泡湯 一樣抱來抱去。湯屋空調不佳,泡太久頭暈暈的,只好泡一個小時就離開。 晚上吃鍋爸火鍋,結束滿足的一天。
半夜和老公看電視購物,在老公的鼓勵下,訂購了蘭城晶英酒店一泊二食,效期到明年5/31,希望是good deal!
Comedy, Preschooler Style Is your kid cracking you up? Two-year-olds can be hysterical, especially when they're perfectly serious. The way they interact with the world can be downright slapstick, and their imprecise mastery of English can lead to butchered phrases that rival Dr. Seuss for creativity. The hardest part may be keeping a straight face when you have to discipline your child for doing something wrong when she looked so cute doing it! 兩歲半小孩也會說笑話嗎? Your 2-year-old now Some of the things preschoolers say are quite charming and unintentionally funny. They often blend two words to come up with a creative new one: prettyful, wonderfulous. They also mishear, mispronounce, and misremember words, inadvertently creating new ones that sometimes stick around a family for years: "ungabrella" for "umbrella," or "tummy button." 英語系國家的小孩練習說話時,其實也跟我們一樣,有些字雖然跟著大人發音,不過她還不瞭解意思,慢慢地,她會從大人講話內容中學習到如何說話,這個階段實在很有趣呢! Resist the urge to laugh at these malapropisms and mistakes. They're wonderful evidence that your preschooler is working on mastering speech. Rather than correcting such errors, you might echo back what your child said in the right way but without commenting on the difference. Then go immediately over to a special notebook you keep for these immortal sayings and write them down so you never forget! 對啊!即使小孩用錯字也不能笑他,因為這正是他熟悉語言的開始,那是他進步的佐證。不知道別人如何教導小孩,但我覺得真的不須要刻意糾正他,我反而覺得這樣很可愛,只要他不是故意做出不禮貌或不正確的行為,我都會慢慢等著小孩的進步。 Your life now It can be tough to hang back when your child is struggling. A parent's natural impulse is to swoop in and save the day. But a little bit of adversity is good for your preschooler. Let him grapple with a puzzle piece that just won't fit, or try and try again to figure out how to get his sweater on. Trial and error is how kids learn — and the rush of pleasure they feel when they finally figure something out is a real confidence booster that makes them want to try other new challenges. Do step in at the point when your child is growing so frustrated he can't focus. Even then, see if you can offer a little help without taking over the job completely and doing it for him.
今天還是請一天假,中午時帶著小馨進辦公室處理一些事情,之後老公又帶我們回家。 等回到家,老公說要將那篇paper丟出去、我也在趕著寄一封重要的email,等忙完再出發南下,已經四點半了。 好險一路上車程都很順利沒塞車,約七點多到達映涵飯店,爸媽和小宣一家人已經在那邊了,終於全家人可以好好度假囉。
今天還是請假一天,早上把拔先出門,我帶著小馨到樓下吃早餐。 我買了一份早餐給把拔,可是一直沒看到把拔的車經過,小馨先是大喊幾聲:「把拔∼、把拔∼∼」,把拔當然不在現場,後來又喊了「學長∼∼」,唉!真是令人三條線...
昨晚實在太生氣了!已經跟牠白熱化,牠一直挑釁,好像小馨不喜歡我會讓牠很得意,我也不知道怎麼說牠,只能氣在心裡。 晚上突然想到還有三阿姨,因此打了電話給阿姨,果然阿姨說沒問題!而且會跟著舅媽一起到家中來,那我就放心了! 雖然阿姨和舅媽照顧小馨不是那麼熟悉,不過我的心情卻安心不少,不會一顆心懸在上頭,只求在下班時趕快離開辦公室飛奔回家。 另外,跟老公也鬧得不愉快,也好,反正他在忙也不想吵架,他說狠話,明天不跟我回南投....隨便他,我跟小馨還是會去日月潭度假!
早上回診看了醫生,告訴醫生她嘴巴有破洞,可是手足都沒有水泡,因此醫生說是 皰疹病毒,非腸病毒,學校也要停課一週,沒辦法上課了。 傷腦筋啊!未來這一週要自己帶小孩,又不想送討厭的人的家,偏偏他們又一直 問,不停打電話來,真是煩死了! p.s. 下午她好不容易睡著,東西都不願吃,
Naked Planet There's an old saying: "Little potatoes have big eyes." Your 2-year-old is watching everything around her, including details you might have never noticed. And including you. Is it okay to let her see you naked around the house? That's up to you. Experts generally think it's harmless until your child reaches an age where she seems uncomfortable about it — showing she's beginning to understand social rules. 在家裡我們不會刻意不穿衣服,不過有時因為把拔不在家,我會和小馨一起洗澡,但是有時也會將她放在客廳讓她看DORA、巧虎影片,讓自己得以好好洗個澡。 Your 2-year-old now Your preschooler has an incredible eye and ear for details. Because he's learning about so many new things and experiences, he's attuned to sounds, colors, relative sizes, and movements that you probably tune out. Don't be surprised to hear him referring to "the clock that ticks" or "the mailman's blue hat." 長長聽說小孩有不可思議的觀察力,小馨不僅是在視力與聽力方面很強,最近連講話都有趣極了!早上起床帶她到小馬桶尿尿,聽到窗外似乎有聲音,她問我:「那是什麼聲音啊∼∼?」(純然彷彿媽媽講話的口吻),我說應該是小鳥吧!小馨又說:「應該是兩隻小鳥一直飛一直飛,然後就撞在一起了...」聽她一字一句慢慢地說,覺得很好笑也很棒呢! Your child is also drawing relationships between things that share similar characteristics he's noticed: "Hey, Mister McGregor in Peter Rabbit has a beard and Santa Claus has a beard and Grandpa has a beard!" This acute attention to detail explains why preschoolers are quick to observe changes (and often demand you right them to their former state), like rearranged furniture, a new haircut, or a ripped page in a book. Your life now Is it okay to be naked around your 2-year-old? In a word, yes. Families choose to handle nudity in different ways, though. Your child is beginning to understand that his body is his own. If you're comfortable in your birthday suit, your child is likely to develop a similar comfort level about his body. If you prefer to teach that being naked in front of others is not appropriate, that's healthy, too, as it's something he'll learn later in the preschool years. If your child shows any discomfort with your nudity (giggling, shielding his eyes), he's already catching on that wearing clothes is standard practice in public. At that point it's usually a good idea to cover up in front of him, while also explaining that it's okay to not wear clothes in private (say, in his room).
早上小馨喝ㄋㄟㄋㄟ,喝到一半竟然喊痛,我心想該不會是腸病毒吧? 果然把拔用手電筒一照,嘴巴有破洞,而且紅紅一粒一粒,應該就是腸病毒了!難怪她食慾不好,吃喝不下東西...
表妹生了小男孩,現在在月子中心,中午時我們去看她,不過小馨不能進去,所以老公陪她在科學教育館玩。
其實昨晚就發現她體溫熱熱的!早上醒來一量,果然燒到39度,趕忙中午前掛號看醫生,幸好醫生說目前沒有喘的跡象,不過喉嚨紅紅的,要持續喝退燒藥水到星期一,如果星期天不燒了,星期一才可以不用喝... 雖然發燒了,馨的活動力還是很好,不過有聽到她喊痛痛,好像是嘴巴裡面痛...
在後火車站幫馨買了一"南瓜仙子"裝,深怕會撞衫,幸好老師說是獨一無二的! 晚上媽媽有聚餐,所以讓她回去阿公阿嬤家吃飯,唉~~不得以啊!
Why Regression Happens The process of learning new skills is often "two steps forward, one step back." Regression is common in 2-year-olds partly because there are just so many new skills to juggle. They're also vulnerable to stresses that make them want to go back to familiar territory (diapers instead of that new potty) because it's more comforting. Be patient with little setbacks and remember that they're not permanent. Your 2-year-old now If only all development happened in a straight line! For all your child's progress, she'll slide a bit backward every now and then. For example, someone who's been sleeping soundly through the night (finally!) for months begins popping up in your bed at 3 a.m. A pacifier is dug up and latched on to. Or a child who was potty-trained early suddenly has a rash of accidents. Regression happens for many reasons. Sometimes a child is working so hard on one kind of skill that she backslides on another. Stress (vacation, a new sitter, Mom returning to work) or fear (of the dark, of separating) may also be a trigger. When your child regresses, provide extra security and comfort without making a big deal over it. It's okay to give in a little, with a limit: "Okay, you can wear your pull-ups today, and we'll go back to your underpants tomorrow." Kids have a drive to go forward and will soon outgrow any "baby" behaviors they revisit. If you're really concerned, mention regressive behaviors to your doctor. Rarely, a physical disorder can cause the loss of previously acquired skills. Your life now You're probably learning which discipline strategies work best for you. But here's one you should never use: Don't take away your child's lovey (favorite teddy, doll, blankie, or other beloved transitional object) as punishment. Don't even threaten to do so. A lovey is a powerful symbol of you and a source of great comfort to your child. No matter how mad you are or what kind of lesson you want to teach, you don't want to mess with something as central to your child's well-being as that.
早上小馨起床,就笑瞇瞇地跟我說「把拔回來了」,呵呵!那是因為昨天我才跟她說,把拔要回家了!我們要去接把拔。 到了11:40,我們就一起出發了!沿路上車程很順利,小馨也一路看著DORA,很順利接到把拔。 下午回到公館吃飯後才回家!
明明就是在網路上買120分鐘,只要NT888的優惠,到了現場,服務的美容師卻說全身精油SPA要NT1500,也就是還要再付六百多元,結果做完之後,並沒有很舒服啊... 實在一整個火大! 還有,他的會員人數好多,感覺品質沒有很好,算是買到教訓,以後不會再去了!! 現在想來,還是「東方泰」泰式按摩最棒!即使要加錢,也讓人覺得舒服、很值得!
For celebrating grandma's Bday.
早上出發到台中的路上,小馨都要跟兩個姐姐在一起,因此都坐阿公的車。 在園遊會拿了氣球,跑跑跳跳,high到最高點。 下午到國美館繪本區,再到戶外廣場,這時小馨已經在推車上睡著了。 晚上又找了小宣一家人來吃飯,四個小朋友真是熱鬧非凡! 回程在highway上小馨一直大哭,應該是興奮過頭了,只好全程抱著她睡,雖然很危險,也沒辦法,因為只要一放上car seat 就哭,最後終於在9:45到家了!
早上把拔參加研討會,下午才回到家,出發前就不斷告訴小馨,要回南投找梓熏姐 姐,因此她情緒上也很配合,一整個興奮! 我們拖到下午3:30才出發,快到苗栗時,跟媽媽約在隨意食堂,想不到我們還比 較早到,約6:10就在餐廳囉。 回家後小馨開始玩玩玩,不過打破了奶瓶,我跟爸媽晚上又出門去買尿布及奶瓶。
Let's Get Verbal By 30 months, your child can name a few body parts, some colors, and even a friend or two. Her memory and speaking ability work in tandem. Help out by expanding on what she says. If she says, "Dog sleep," you might say, "Yes, Spot is curled up and fast asleep in his doggie bed." She can't imitate your complex language patterns yet, but her brain is absorbing them. Every time you repeat her words or expand on them, you're giving her memory practice. 兩歲半了!最近教小馨,當別人問她幾歲時,要說兩歲半! 前三天連假在家,發現小馨好會說話了!不過她的話似乎只有我和老公才能理解,但是有時把拔也會聽不懂,哈! Your 2-year-old now What can a 2-year-old remember? More and more every day! He's developing a way of thinking called spatial representation or symbolic thinking. Basically it means he can see things in his mind's eye. As experience and habit create new connections in his brain, he becomes better able to call up these captured images: what a lost teddy looks like, the way to Grandma's house, the ice cream and cake served at the party yesterday. Help your preschooler lay down these memory tracks in the brain by asking questions about things he knows: "Hmmm, what will the bunny say goodnight to next?" Ask him to recall details: "Did you have vanilla ice cream or chocolate?" At night, review your day together: "And then what did we do?" Your life now Bath time can be a time for bonding, relaxing, and play. Bring out a variety of water toys — plastic containers or measuring cups work fine — so your preschooler can dip, pour, and have pretend tea parties. Sometimes happy bathers turn into fearful ones almost overnight. If your preschooler develops a sudden aversion for the bath, you might: Bathe together. You can hold him to help him feel more secure. Try showers. Some preschoolers like standing in the "rain." (Others, though, are frightened.) Introduce bubble bath. The bubbles may distract him and are safe to use in moderation. Buy bath time diversions made for kids. Your local drugstore or toy store may carry soap that squirts from a can, "crayons" that draw on the tub and wash right off, or colored bathwater tints. Use a minimal amount of water. Add more as days go by and your child's comfort level increases.
國慶放假一天
果然是個小女生,在家裡已經會玩家家酒的遊戲,還會自己炒菜(相思豆),端上一盤好菜請她的玩具朋友們分享,當然也會端給把拔馬麻吃,可愛呢!
今天好不容易可以晚點起床,全家人就在家一整天沒出門,到了下午才出去吃飯,找到西門店的鍋爸涮涮鍋吃到飽。 後來趕赴安和路mothercare,在關門前兩分鐘進去shopping,幸好店員沒有趕人,又買了NT3600小馨的衣服才回家。
天氣涼爽,風吹來很舒服,可惜兩個小孩不願意繼續往前走,不過山裡的芬多精真 不錯!
晚上加班到9:30,打電話回去時,老公已經在幫小馨洗澡,恩...很好,不用我交代,他自己就可以做! 回到家深怕小馨太晚睡,因此還沒吃飯,就急忙陪著小馨上床,唱唱歌她很快就入睡了....
隨著小馨的玩具愈來愈多,認知愈來愈豐富,原本最愛的巧虎,已經落後,現在有小花、妞妞、維泥熊....的陪伴,她幾乎忘了巧虎才是她的最愛。 不過我還是繳費續訂幼幼版一年期,選擇贈送一期雜誌至明年10月。
其實我也不確定這樣算不算處罰,只是因為老師說今天第一次玩短麻繩,小馨很開心,所以拿著繩子甩,經老師制止後,又甩了一次,所以老師讓她到旁邊站著,下次再讓她玩,就有遵守規定了。 這是一件小事情,但是我卻覺得這應該是第一次小馨被外人(爸媽以外的人)限制行為,我只是想瞭解這個階段的小孩,真的理解「被處罰」的意義嗎?還有,別的小朋友都不會拿著繩子甩嗎?她應該是不知道甩繩子的危險性才會這樣做,因此對於兩歲多的小孩,我會用比較寬容的態度面對,因為我相信,她真的不懂危險性、她只覺得好玩,絕非故意要甩。 我希望自己不要成為寵溺小孩的媽媽,面對小孩的無理,我也有氣不過的時候,不過多數時間,小馨都會停止不正當的行為或動作,而且大人的一舉一動,小孩都在學習中...
小馨實在太愛DORA了,所以將家裡第一季的DORA借給園所,晚上接小馨時,就看到園所在放DORA了! 因為每次都看到園所放巧虎島,應該讓孩子們換換口味,所以借給了老師!