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【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 孩子出現異常行為時,應試著去了解其內心世界的初始想法,除需平日用心觀察之外,更要主動詢問、耐心頃聽。 When a child behaves strangely, try and get to the root of his feelings by being observant, attentive and proactive.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 若孩子仍因說實話而遭到處罰時,切記要告訴孩子如果說謊的話,處罰會是二倍或是更嚴重,以免孩子誤會說實話亦會遭到處罰,而招致反效果。 If a child is punished even when telling the truth, have him understand that the punishment would be worse if he were to tell a lie.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 當孩子有不良行為發生時,立即將孩子放在一個單純或無聊的環境中,停止對他的獎勵和注意力,藉以阻止其不當行為繼續發生,並幫助孩子達成自我控制的表現。 When a child is misbehaving, bring him to an isolated and non-distracting environment. As well, remove any rewards and attention given to him to minimize such behavior and have him learn self-control.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 父母是孩子的好榜樣,多讚美週遭的人,孩子就會有樣學樣。 Parents are models for their children. Be generous with your compliments to others and your children will learn to do the same.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 如果孩子在某個特別時段有哭鬧的情形,可試著在時間快到前,抱孩子看看窗外的風景,或播放孩子喜歡的音樂轉移其注意力。 If your child may be prone to crying during certain periods, have him look out the window or play his favorite music before this happens.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 兄弟姐妹間的爭吵,其實是不同年齡、程度的孩子學習如何和彼此相處的好機會,如果不是非處理不可的程度,家長可以儘量不要介入。 Arguments between siblings provide opportunities for children of different ages and levels to learn to get along. Therefore parents should try not to involve themselves in these situations unless necessary.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 孩子鬧脾氣時,先讓他的哭鬧結束並安靜下來,再用諒解和關愛去安慰他。同時也應反省一下造成孩子哭鬧的原因和如何防止它再發生的方法,幫助孩子建立自我的控制。 When your child throws a tantrum, give him some time to calm down and provide him comfort through love and compromise. As well, evaluate the reason behind his behavior and look for ways to minimize such behavior to help establish his self-control.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 孩子看卡通片時,家長可適時在旁講解卡通情節,如果是較大的孩子,可在看完卡通後跟孩子討論劇情,瞭解孩子的理解程度有多少。 When your child is watching television programs such as cartoons, explain the plot to him during the show. For older children, you may discuss the plot after the program to gain an understanding of his comprehension.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 時下很多雙薪家庭的幼兒是託給祖父母來照顧,老人家無論在心智或體力上都比較衰退,父母不妨在出門前將先備妥需要的東西,並且應讓祖父母有充份的休息時間,也鼓勵他們在假日時多閱讀書報、雜誌或參加社團等以獲得新知,其體力和精神上的豐足將可帶給幼兒更周全的照顧。 Many young children with two working parents are often cared for by the grandparents. However, older people tend to have declining mental capacity and physical strength. Therefore, parents can make preparations beforehand to allow the grandparents to gain their much-needed rest. As well, encourage both grandparents to read during their leisure time or participate in outside group activities. A strong body and clear mind are important in the care of young children.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 和孩子玩故事接龍,一人輪流說一句,藉由遊戲讓孩子練習專心傾聽別人說話的內容及思考自己該說些什麼。 Parents can play story games with their child such as by having each person take turns to complete a sentence. Such games can allow your child to practice listening to others as well as thinking about what he has to say.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 通常較年幼的孩子會獲得父母較多的注意和照顧,這讓大孩子容易產生被忽略或嫉妒的情緒;若能撥出一些時間單獨和大孩子說說話或陪他一起玩,讓他感覺到自己也是被重視的,相信應可減少一些手足間的爭執。 Older children may feel ignored by their parents or jealous of their younger siblings who may receive more parental attention and care. To minimize disagreements between siblings, make time to talk or play with the older child to let him be aware that he is loved and respected.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 學習看故事書時,要從短篇故事開始,使孩子覺得很快就能讀完一本書,從中獲得成就感,才會愛上閱讀。 When a child begins to read, have him start with short stories so that he feels capable of finishing it quickly and gain a sense of accomplishment and hopefully develop a love for reading.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 孩子在學寫字前,可先給予較粗的筆以利握拿,並鼓勵孩子多做塗鴉練習,熟悉線條的運用。 Before learning to write, give your child large-sized pencils that can be held easily. Encourage him to practice with the writing tool such as making lines.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 如孩子已因某件事情遭到父親的責罵,母親可在事後擔任解說者的角色,讓孩子瞭解為何遭受責罵,而不要因同件事情再次斥責孩子。 When a child is being scolded by a parent, the other parent should provide the child with an explanation so that he understands why his is being scolded.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 幫幼兒洗完澡擦乾後,可為孩子擦點嬰兒乳液並輕輕地為其做點簡單的按摩,除了輕柔的動作、肢體的撫摸可安定孩子的情緒,而孩子也能感受到父母的慈愛。(天氣冷時別忘了要開電暖器喔!) After giving your baby a bath, gently massage him with a small amount of baby lotion. The gentle touches and caresses can help soothe him and provide him with a sense of security. (When the weather’s cold, don’t forget to turn on the heater!)
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 教養孩子難免會遇到束手無策的情形,所以父母親也要持續自己的成長,才不會因面對孩子日漸增加的問題而感到焦慮。 When educating your child, tough situations cannot be avoided. As parents, your own growth is needed to succeed when difficulties arise.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 孩子的行為是從學習而來,如果父母管教孩子的態度不一,或突然改變教養方式,例如一會兒稱讚他是「天才」,一會兒又罵他「這麼笨」,孩子很容易變得疑慮、憂鬱而分不清什麼是正確的行為。 Much of a child’s behavior is learned. If parents have differing opinions in terms of their child’s education or abruptly change educational methods, the child may become insecure or be unable to determine correct behavior.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 如果孩子容易緊張,讓孩子帶著平常熟悉且親近的東西,告訴孩子那是他的吉祥物,只要帶著就會有好事發生。 If your child becomes easily nervous, have him bring something that he is familiar and comfortable with to let him know that he has nothing to fear.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 尊重孩子的所有權,如果要拿取他的東西,應先徵求其同意,孩子感受到所有權被尊重後,反之才能學會尊重他人。 Respect your child’s ownership. If you wish to take his belongings, get his permission beforehand. When he understands he is respected, he too will learn to respect others.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 當孩子從事的是以前未做過或較為困難的事時,不要指責孩子犯錯的次數,而要評價孩子做對的地方,以幫助孩子走出低落的情緒和恢復自信心。 When a child accomplishes something new or difficult, evaluate what he has done correctly instead of focusing on his mistakes to help lift his spirits and regain his self-confidence.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 當孩子犯錯時,除了給予適當的責備,更應教導他補救過錯。如孩子不小心把果汁打翻在衣物上,可教他們如何用水將污點洗除。 When a child makes a mistake, not only point out the mistake, give him the opportunity to correct it. For example, if he spills juice on his shirt, teach him how to clean up the stain.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 讚美孩子本身沒有預期會被稱讚的地方,如「咦,你什麼時候變成一個大力士啦?」擴充孩子對自我的肯定。 Praise your child in areas that may be unexpected such as how strong he is to increase his self-affirmation.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 鼓勵孩子冒險,可讓孩子時常由身邊的小事體驗新的感覺,例如:帶孩子到餐廳吃飯時,可以點一些從未吃過的菜,使他有新鮮感;漸漸地由於面對新事物的經驗豐富,再面臨新的挑戰時就不會倉惶失措了。 Encourage your child to try new things such as ordering new dishes at a restaurant. Once he gains experience in facing new situations, he will be less afraid.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 欲鼓勵內向的孩子開口說話時,儘量以開放式的問題來詢問,使孩子除了「是」或「不是」外,還可以表達自己的想法。 With a shy child, try asking open questions to encourage him to speak and express his opinions with more than a Yes or a No.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 當孩子被問題困擾而煩悶時,可跟孩子講講笑話或看看有趣的節目,幫助放鬆心情。 When your child is unhappy, help to ease his emotions by telling a joke or watching an interesting TV program together as ways of getting him to relax.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 父母應該經常和幼兒說話,說故事、歌謠和童詩。在談話或故事中可以用加強語調的字眼、使用抑揚頓挫的方式以及不斷重複一些簡單的字,以作為將來更完整語言發展的預備。 Parents should take opportunities to speak, tell stories, and sing songs to their child. To help his language development, get into the habit of enunciating your words, varying the tones in your voice and repeating simple words.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 與其讓孩子隨時都能觀看影片,不如限制孩子「一天只能看一次」或是於某個特定的時間觀看,加強影片對孩子的吸引力,亦使其能更集中注意力。 Limit the amount of time that your child spends in front of the television to once a day or during specific times to maintain his viewing interest and concentration.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 個性文靜的孩子,通常不會作過份的要求,而容易被父母忽略,因此對於此類型孩子您需要細心觀察孩子的特性、鼓勵他表達,用更多的耐心來幫助他學習。 A child with a quiet and reserved personality may become easily overlooked by his parents. Therefore, parents should be observant and patient and encourage him to express himself.
【每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 鼓勵孩子在閱讀時能配合大聲朗誦的方式,有助於集中注意力。 Encourage your child to read out loud as this can help with his concentration.
每日一招由「寰宇家庭家長諮詢中心」提供】 培養孩子獨立的個性,給孩子多元思考的方向,自己站在輔導的立場,讓孩子從小便對自己的選擇負責任。在民主的教養下,才能增進孩子自我的啟發與經驗學習。 Help your child to develop self-independence by giving him opportunities to analyze situations. Be there to guide him and encourage him to be responsible for his own actions. Parents can enhance a child’s imagination and knowledge through learning freedom.